
Connected Counseling Co-op
Nurturing connections and healing from within
Shelly
I have a deep love for human beings and our stories, which is one reason that I am grateful for my work as a counselor. I have the honor of listening to people tell their stories and witnessing them as they make sense of those stories and incorporate them into a kind of map for their lives. My experience supporting children and families in school settings for nearly twenty years has inspired my understanding of how much potential lies in this process of making sense of our stories. I have learned that growth and change are innate and powerful forces that all human beings have access to, and that we are primed to learn through our relationships with others and with the world around us. These beliefs form the foundation of my counseling practice today.

My therapeutic work with children, teens, and families begins with building a trusting relationship based on presence, mutual respect, collaboration, curiosity, and exploration. Starting from a person-centered approach, we will work together to identify appropriate interventions with your child’s or family’s unique needs in mind. We will use experiential and mindfulness practices that help children, teens, and families increase their connection to themselves and others, and promote self-awareness and agency within the family and community systems of which they are a part. Nature and play will also have an important role in the counseling process.
Within the safety of our therapeutic relationship, we will identify and explore the emotions, thoughts, ideas, patterns, and behaviors that are currently present while also identifying, exploring, and experiencing new ones. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) and am happy to use it when it’s a good fit. EMDR is a therapeutic model that involves identifying negative ideas that we have about ourselves and the world and reworking them so that they can help to shape more positive ideas about ourselves and the world. EMDR has been established by over 40 years of clinical research as an effective tool for treating symptoms of trauma.
I have experience supporting children and teens who are living with anxiety, depression, grief and loss, trauma, attachment disruptions, relationship and family concerns, challenges with emotion and mood regulation, and questions of meaning and purpose. I also have experience supporting families in developing new ways of relating to each other, addressing communication and behavior concerns, and co-parenting.
In my personal life I love spending time with my family and our pets, being in my garden or in the woods, reading and learning about new things, and working on creative projects by myself or with other people.
What to Expect
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